Saturday, October 8, 2011

The day I cut a few things

I truly hope I get to keep this post short. Because on this day, the day I cut my boyfriend's hair, I ended up cutting a lot more.


Before the renegade

Libreng gupit! (excuse the pambahay outfitey)



So, how did I do? I let boyfriend use one of my loose pambahays as his "haircut shirt", then he showered after all the feeling-propesyunal-na-barbero stint of mine was over. Not a lot was cut off but boyfriend likes it. He says i'll do all of his future haircuts from now on. Coolio.

My boyfriend. My boyfriend. The. Boyfriend.


The day after this haircut happened, the boyfriend and I had a fight.

That was last week.

No it wasn't because of the haircut.

It was serious. Scary serious.

We've never had a major fight in our four years and four months of being together.

Until this day. Or well, last week.

A lot of things that has never been said and done, were said and done. A lot of emotions, a lot of.. yes. I don't wanna bore you.

And I don't wanna cry.

I should say, without any exaggeration, that I've had the greatest scare of my life this day. Or well, last week. And it had something to do with me having to cut everything off with my life. (ghoent code: my life = my bf) 


Don't judge.

Thank God.

Thank God.

We are working things out now.

We are talking, and healing, and learning from all that happened.

I learned a lot. I really did.

I pray that what was cut, will be replaced by something new.

I know that it will never be the same.

But I sure pray that it's  a lot stronger.

Today we hit our largest bump yet. Or well, last week.

There are some scratches. But I know it's all in the surface.

And deep down, we're still in it for the long haul.

At least I hope so.

And I truly and will forever pray so.

And will surely unendlessly work hard for.

And certainly [wish I] know so.


Claire said...

Sabi namin ng friends ko, kulang pa friendship namin kasi di pa kami nag-aaway-away.

I think it should be part of your relationship (it could end up being stronger after you patch things up)so just be optimistic!

eji patanao said...

hi! aww it's sad when our boyfriends and i are in a fight, you know what? we are 10 months and coming 11, we experienced many bumps that the two of us are nearly losing it, but because of our love for each other, we tried to re conciliate and learn to forgive each other's mistakes. hope that you will be strong :)

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kath said...

kaya nyong lagpasan ang mga bumps..just remember communication is key :)

krissy ♥ said...

You got me worried there, but I'm glad you were able to patch things up :)

In my opinion, mas okay nga yun nag-aaway. My ex-boyfriend and I, we never had any major fights. Until I got bored and got together with someone who fought with me all the time :( Ayun, one of my biggest regrets hehe. Pero I'm sure you guys will be in it for the long haul. Dumarating talaga yan sa kahit anong relationship, but as long as you two are committed and dedicated to making it work, everything will be all right in the end :)

And can I just say that I really love your writing style? :)

PS: Ang cool, libreng gupit forever! :D

Gizelle Faye | Vanilla Ice Cream said...

the haircut is good..looks like a professional cut it. but anyway, i know the post is not about the haircut but the fiance and i seldome fight too...but when we do, it's really about serious stuff...don't worry, when you fight about it, that means that the two of you are willing to work at your relationship...hang in there!

♥ vanilla ice cream ♥

Sweethestia said...

Wow you know how to cut hair pala... galing!

ghoent said...

@Claire: It was a really difficult time pero slowly but surely e narerealize nga namin na hindi lang minor fights and dapat na kayang lamapasan. Even the heartbreaking ones. optimistic ng bongga ang drama ko talaga. =)

ghoent said...

@Eji: Thank you! Hope your relationship will last long, keep all the love flowing lang. =)

@Kath: Thank you! Natumbok mo, communication is key talaga. =)

ghoent said...

@Krissy: Thank you Krissy!! Nabasa ko yung recent and old entry mo re your ex, sobra kitang naintindihan kaya hindi ako nakareak even.. i was so scared kasi hindi kayo nagendup na magandang ending exactly. =( tama, everything needs work naman kaya continuous ang pagayos at learning namin. =)

Aww grabe thank you naman! <3 Yes, libre gupit! Gusto din naman niya yung magulo kaya aprub sakanya yung mga di pantay pantay, hahaha! =P

ghoent said...

@Gizelle: Wow soon to get married na pala! Galing galing! Hoping to hang on forever na hahaha cheesy. =P Thank you! =)

@Sweethestia: Nagfifeeling lang! Haha! =)

Honey Andrade said...

First of all, I think its pretty cute that your boyfriend actually trusted you to cut his hair! Haha! I don't think my boyfriend would give me that same kind of trust. LOL :))

Second, I'm glad you guys are still trying to work things out.. Whatever it is that happened, just don't lose faith in each other and everything will be fine. :)

ghoent said...

@Honey: ahaha type niya kasi ang magulo kaya pinabayaan ako. =P Thank you Honey, I love your advice. =)

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